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why can't i stick to one boy?
i say i like a guy but when another guy comes along and i start to think we are just friends. He tells me he likes me! i want at least one guy to be my friend (sounds weird). Then he'll ask if i like him. And some how i always have to say "maybe or i don't know" because im scared that if i say no they won't want to be friends anymore. How can i get over this? and do the right thing??
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perhaps the problem is that you're naturally charming and flirtatious, and guys just start liking you because they think you're coming on to them. if you try too hard to get a guy to be your friend, charm is probably what will happen. so just try to get things to naturally settle, don't go looking for a guy friend, let a guy be your friend.
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Wanting a guy to be you friend does not sound weird. It's fine to have guy friends, but you have to be able to keep those friendships platonic. It's fine when they ask whether you like them to say something like "You're such a great friend" or "I like hanging out with you". Keep in mind that no one is expecting you to like them. If you're having trouble deciding which one you like, make lists of all the good things about each one. Eventually, you will have to turn someone down, and although it's hard, you'll have someone there to help you get through it. Hope I helped :)
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If you really like the first guy, like really like, and this other guy comes along and asks you if you like him (and you do but just in a friend way) say " Of course!" In a friend way...
Unless this guy YOU like isnt as kewl or doesnt like you back go for the guy who likes you instead of chasing one you cant get.
But if they both like you.... Either chose OR tell them you want to be just friends with both... Then you have two friends and no confusion! AWSOME RIGHT?!! ;)
Go for the guy YOU REEEEEEEEEAAALLLLLLLLYYY LIKE!!!!
-Shelby ;)
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