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What is love?


Question Posted Wednesday April 15 2009, 7:05 pm

15/f
So I was wandering, how do you know when your in love? And how can you tell the difference between real, genuine love and just strong friendship, and do strong friendships usualy result in relationships? I would really appreciate it if you could answer this. Thank you :)

-Annie


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shinobi answered Thursday April 16 2009, 8:57 am:
I remember finding this out the hard way.... I think I can help before you do too.

I always wanted relationships. To be in love and happy. That was my problem. I became good friends with certain girls and it felt natural to be in a relationship after such strong friendships. So yes, usualy strong friendships result in relationships (though they always shouldn't). But that was the problem.

This is how you can tell when its real or not.
1) if you cant bring yourself to say something negative about the person

2) if your upset then you think about that person to make you feel better

3) If you are willing to think through the risk of losing that person as a friend but gaining a love and still take the risk even though you know its high.

4) if you dont cant think about being with anyone else.

Those questions are what I had to start asking myself so I wasn't entering a relationship just to be in a relationsip.

Let me know how you liked it. You can E-mail me at AskShinobi@gmail.com or send me a message on here.

Good Luck!
- Greg (Shinobi)

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