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i am really confused. i met this guy through my friend when we were at the cinema and he kept talking to me when i was there. he was asking loads of questions about me and stuff and once i got home and i noticed he had added me on msn. for days we were talking and i really got along with him well. and i was under the impression that he liked me. (without him actually saying it) he has said i am good looking, i am funny etc and that he wants a girlfriend. so we were talking every day for about a week and now he just does not message me. its weird. i would message him but i dont want to if he has just decided he doesnt like me? i do like him and would like to keep talking to him. if he has met someone else does that mean he isnt interested in me? (that sounds a really stupid question) but i am just confused. and if he has met someone else should i not speak to him anymore?
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He might think that you just aren't interested because you never talk to him first. I know, I have the same problem, I don't like starting conversations with guys, but if you really like him you need to just do it. It wouldn't hurt to just say 'hi'.
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I don't know what he's like ,but guys don't normally talk that much. He might just like. I've made the first move before VERY hard! Then again I had no flirting exsperince. Odds are <not knowing how he is> that he just got in trouble which led to grounding. Boys are born trouble makers! The HIGHEST possiblity to what I read is that he might like boys. If he seemed to friendly, yep. Hope I helped, Good luck you need it. -lily
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i know it' snot easy for girls to make a move. it sounds like you like this guy some. who knows if he met someone? but why take the chance for him to? jus tmssage him someday. don't make a big deal out of it. maybe you will talk, maybe you won't. you aren't ever going to have the life you want if you let life come to you. you have to take chances. you have to to make an effort to a degree. life will pass you by and you'll spend time wondering why you didn't just do something. i've made these mistakes before. there is nothing worse than than liking someone and not making a move then finding out later that they were interested but gave up on me. saying "hello" is not being overly aggressive. life is easier when someone just boldly chases you. but it just doesn't always happen that way. let's say you waste the next 2 months wondering what he thinks. that's 2 months you could have been meeting someone else. life passes by quickly. you have to take the chances you get. the older you get the less chances you have. if he took the time to to try to chat with you and such he'd probably want to hear from you anyhow.
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