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it may be something you cant do or say to change but it still hurts and when your friend dosen't seem like he wants to be friends anymore you wanna question why and you want awnsers but people grow apart and theres nothing you can do about it so...what should you do when somone you believed in suddenly goes Awall and decides he dosent care about the friendshipp and dosent care enough to talk to you or tell you what's going on so you decide to confront him and tell him that mabey the friendship we had for over a year is now over you do this because you cant stand to be pushed aside for the popular girls and you cant really decide if he's worth fighting for soo you be the bigger person and end the friendship Its not that you have fallen for your bff its just that your not used to being deserted by somone you cared so much aboutni guess my question is....did you make the right move and how Are you able to cope
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It just happens overtime. Recenetly I have lost contact with one of my best friends since middle school. But she now has a b/f and other things in her life and has new friends. We grew apart but we both went seperate ways and found new friends in doing so. But also if you think that this is hurting you, you need to talk to him. Who knows what he might say. All you can do is just let him know that you still want to be friends. Yes when telling your friend that you don't want to be friends because he pushed you aside you are doing the right thing. You can't always be waiting for him. Because one day they wil all split up and he will go back to you. So you remember this and tell him NO!!
Good Luck!
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like you said people grow apart and you just can't help that. but you have to decide, honestly. is this person really worth your time if they deserted you?
here is what i did, when someone pushed me aside because that person thought i said something bad when it was only a opinion. i asked them what they were mad at me for and then i at least tried to explain what happened and why i said it. but it didn't work and so i believed that that person just wasn't suppose to be my friend at all. coping with the loss of a friend is hard don't get me wrong it is just if that friend drops you or disses you or whatever are they really worth the fight? i am sorry but this is all i can give you because sometimes other people can't decide for you, you have to decide.
hope i didn't offend you or make it sound like i am insulting you because that wasn't what i was trying to do, what i am trying to do is saying that since he dumped you for the popular crowd then he really isn't your friend he was probably using you to get to them and he really isn't worth the time. But you decide and see if i'm right if so pretend like you never knew him and move on.
hoped this helped.
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