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My romance is a mess.
My crush's name is Kyle he's a super cutie & he's 15 just like me. We have a really awsome friend-ship now for a little over a year, I've told him before that I like him he just said he wanted to be friends( year ago) now, all are friends & me think he likes me, I just don't know how to bring that topic up again being I'm only a 15 year-old girl who really doesn't wanna break this wonderful friend-ship, besides I don't even know if he knows he likes me. My question, How do I tell I still have the same feelings for him I did a year ago with-out messing up are friend-ship?
～signed,
Gabriella, girl, 15
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Well are you sure that he may like you?
You might wanna spend some time looking for more signs that may indicate that he likes you.
And to be even more sure, try flirting with him. See how he reacts. But don't go too overboard with the flirting...you don't wanna scare him away. Be kinda subtle.
Like you could try the classics like touching his arm lightly when you're talking to him and also like smiling at him and like laughing at his jokes and fliping your hair...you know, stuff like that. Then watch his reaction. Hopefully he flirts back...or at least has a positive reaction and smiles or something...then that must mean he likes you.
Once you are sure...then you can try talking to him. Just make sure that there's no one with you when you talk to him. You can pick a casual spot like at school or something, but just make sure you're away from other people (if you can) to not put him on the spot. He seems like a nice guy considering that the last time when you told him how you felt, he agreed to stay friends. Not many guys would do that. Other guys would probably get scared off. So I'm sure he'll understand when you tell him again.
Just tell him that you still like him, but that you'll agree to just stay friends if he doesn't feel the same and that you'll be able to get over your feelings somehow. So that way it shows that you really value his friendship and you don't wanna lose it. So then if he doesn't feel the same then he will agree to still be friends with you.
If you're already sure enough that he likes you, then you can skip all the flirting and what not and jump right to the "telling him" part.
Wow this is long!
Anyway, good luck and I hope things work out!! :) <3
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