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Should i wait or just let it go?
heyy
i like this guy, lets call him Pete. and we were at school camp last week together. okay well he is new at our school and hes really shy. we had a dance party there and he asked me to go to his cabin room with him instead, and i did. we were sitting down and then he goes "Can i kiss you?" and i was shocked because he doesnt talk that much and hes shy so i went all red and didnt say anything and just hid my face and then i stood up and ran away and sat on the top bunk, and he was leaning against the ladder, and then a teacher came in .. xD. we got put on 1 hour of after school detention and he got upset about it because hes only been new for a month and didnt want his reputation with teachers to be ruined, and i tried to cheer him up and then i said If you want to be alone then i can leave and he said Yes please, so i left. He talked to me the day after and said Sorry about ignoring you last night and then we talked for a bit and everything was fine. That night we got back to school and everyone was getting picked up, and my best friend Andrew came to meet me. I got him to carry all my luggage for me lol so we were walking and we walked past Pete, so i said bye to my friend and sat down with Pete. He didnt talk at all so i got a bad vibe and so i asked "Do you hate me or something..?" and he just shook his head no and didnt say anything. I felt abit weird so im like Okay what the hell so i got up and walked off. I didnt talk to him since then and today i had a double class with him, and my friend sat down next to me just do that Pete would have to sit next to me or there would be no seats left. Well that didnt work because he didnt talk to me at all. the next day we had detention for what happened at camp so as we were going inside i turned around and stood right in front of him and i was like "Are you gonna ignore me forever?" and he just shook his head no. and then after the detention i walked up to him and he said "Im sorry for ignoring you its just that im new and i dont want to give a bad image and teachers now give me dirties and everyone is making a big deal out of it" and i said "Yeah i know but you should ignore them because its just stupid rumours"
then hes like "Next term everyone will get over it so it will be better" and i was like Okay so you say you like me, then you ignore me for a week, and now you say next term we will be better for us?!!" and he said "Yeah i just cant talk to you this week .." so i just said Whatever then see you next term. and i walked off..
i dont know whether i should wait for him or if i should just forget about it during the 2 week holidays ? please helpp :)
sorry that its longg lol
thankss
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You should do what you feel fit. But on the other hand he does sound like he is getting that new guy shock. Most ppl do go through that. He sounds all right. but just do something.. like wave a guy in his face. make him jelous.. and then he will prolly talk to you bout it and then you guys could sort stuff out everything would be all good.
or mabey he isnt worth waiting for and you should just ignore him... that would probalbly drive him crazy also...
either way you guys do need to figure some stuff out.
but just give him a chance.. Hes new ;)
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Mmkay hun, lets start with how you feel about this whole thing. This guy is pretty new to school, maybe you don't know him well or maybe you do. Either way, deep down you may feel something for this boy. That is your answer.
Is he worth the wait? Could you live with out him? All of these are questions you should ask yourself. If you find he is not worth it, either tell him how you feel, or just let it fade.
If you think he IS worth it, I think you should wait, but also, I think you should try to talk with him. Rumors are stupid, and a teachers opinion is really not that important when it comes to your love life. If you both like eachother, you have the right to date as you please. So, call him, or go out for coffee or something, and discuss what the two of you should do. It sounds like he might have to sort out his priorities as well. Make sure you give him the chance to do that :)
Good luck! Remember to always be who you are, no matter what others may say. He sounds like an adorable guy!
<3/ariannekp
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