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break up
okay well to make this short i want to break up with my boyfriend of 9 months because he ignores my texts and doesn't seem to care, like i'm doing all of the planning for us to hang out and he's not contributing to it and its making me upset..i'm just tired of doing this to myself...
anyways, i want to break up with him as soon as possible but i don't know what to say and his birthday is in like 2 days so i feel bad =[ but i don't wanna keep waiting .. any advice?
oh and im also hesitant about breaking up with him because i really do love him more than anything and he's my first love and i feel like i might want to go back to him and i dont wanna put myself in that situation...=/
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You should break up with him. U kind of have been asting urlife with a doornail lolz. there are better guys out there. guys who want to plan things WITH you and not let you be the planner. have fun breaking up with him. :D
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if you really love him then you should talk to him tell him what your feeling and if he feels the same way you feel about then he'll respond and say what you want to hear. is he doesnt care then you should break up with him depending on how he responds. you guys have been together for 9 months for alot of people thats alot bu6t if you really love him you should be thinking about forever and 9 months is nothing. if you really want to and need to break up with him to save yourself you should put him down softly but if he doesnt care for you you just show him what hes done to you by explaining and he might have feelings for you and realize he would lose alot if he doesnt just tell him you cant keep up the relationship if he doesnt meet up to your needs. if you guys do stay together tell him that if he really loves you he will make sacrifices for you and do what you want every once in a while you want him to call you tell him and make sure he hears do your best so he does, and the same for texting you. if you want to break up with him do it before his birthday or after it doesnt matter just not on his birthday only if he hurts you really bad and you really hate him them you can ruin his birthday.
if you have a hard time to tell him you should maybe tell him in a different way. theres many ways.... a poem, a letter, maybe get mediated it might be easier because other people will talk for you you'll still be nervous but your not talking and there wont be turning back.
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Have you tried talking to him about how you feel? If you haven't, you really should before you break up with him. Simply ask him is he happy with how you treat him, what does he like, what doesn't he like, and if he asks you back, there's your chance. If he doesn't ask back, just simply use the phrase 'I've been meaning to ask and tell you something'. Ask him his feelings since the beginning of the relationship up to now. Are they stronger? The same? Ask him to be blunt. Then let him know how you feel you put most of the work into the relationship when it comes to hanging out and communicating. Maybe he doesn't feel like he's not doing anything since you don't complain. If he doesn't even consider your feelings toward this situation, doesn't change, or refuses to hear what you have to say I'd say break up with him =/ good luck hun
-Uniq :]
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