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y did he do that?
14/f
ok so there is this guy i liked since the beginning of the skool year. at first we didnt talk too much when he walked me and my friend to our class in the morning. then after our homerooms changed he still walked me to class but my friend didnt come with us. we started to talk a lot and would try to see each other when ever we could. there was this other girl that likes him too and she started to get jelous because he was always so happy when he saw me and not when he saw her(kind of funny actually because he knew her since 1st grade.)Sounds like he really likes me doesnt it. Well recently in my English class we had to write sonnets because we were studing Shakespeare. i wrote my sonnet about him and asked him if he could tell me if it was gay or not. i emailed him on myspace to see what he thought an dhe thought it wasnt gay and it was really cute. i asked him if he knew who it was about and he said he knew withing the first couple of lines. i asked him if he felt the same way. you know what he said, I quote "to be honest not really nothing wrong with you i just dont see you that way" stupid right. i was sure he liked me. but i have two questions #1 y did he do that? was he playing me or just trying to be a really good friend? (i know two questions in one) #2 wshat should i do? still be friends or just shun him and hope he changes his mind? i really like him and care for him. i have never felt this way about a guy before. i trust him and could tell him anything. please help. ohh this happend last night (thursday) i really need help this weekend he walks me to class all next week and i really need to know what to do.
--Sammy
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Well if he says he doesn't see you that he prolly doesn't. But also you should realize that being friends with him is better than nothing at all right!? Because not talking to him at all means you won't talk to him at all and he more than likely won't change his mind. You will feel this way about plenty of people. You may not think so now but you will. So just be friends and let things carry out like they usually would.
Good Luck!
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this has happened to me too, but i went the wrong way about it. i just acted mad at him then he got mad at me and now we arent even talking at all. so do not do that. just still be friends, this will bring you guys closer together. you can tell each other anything and thats a good relationship, you want one like that. hope this helps! : D
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so. i have had so many situations like this. it sounds like this guy is really cool, and a genuinely good friend. one thing i know about crushes is that you take every little sign that the person you like gives, and add it to your he loves me/ he loves me not list in your head. i think that may be the case here, he was being his friendly self towards you, and you (with reason) took it to be expressions of similar feelings. my opinion is that he was trying his best to be a really good friend, and you should stay friends with him. men are simple creatures, if you shun them they will think you dont like them at all, and will go away forever. and you never know, if you guys end up becoming really close friends, he might just start liking you someday! my experience is that friendships like this do have the potential to turn into something more serious
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