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so confused with boyfriend!
18 F
When I don't talk to him (phone, text, in person), I'm sad, ready to break up with him because I'm so scared of getting hurt. It's like I'm wondering what he's doing and my mind goes crazy.
....but when I do talk to him....
I get so happy and excited and want to be with him forever.
He does certain things that are amazingly amazing.
and then he does things that make me say WTF.
I want to break up with him when I'm not communicating with him sooo badly, but when I am I just can't do it.
WHAT do I do??????
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Sounds like you maybe insecure. Thats something your going to have to learn to get rid of over time. But for right now sounds like you need to talk to him about your insecurities, I know it will be hard but it's something you two need to discuss. Also you need to think about the good things aout him when your not with him. Think about all the good times you guys have had. Just remember you have his heart and your the one he thinks about at the end of the day.
Good Luck!!
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Well first of all, you have to have trust with whoever you're dating. That's the number 1 thing in a relationship. Second of all, do you have a reason to feel like he's cheating or something? Like have you witnessed any signs of it? If not, then you shouldn't just suspect he's doing something. I know it can be hard at times when you're not communicating, to let your imagination run wild, but you have to try if you want this relationship to work out.
It sounds to me like you've probably been hurt in relationships before so then it's hard for you to have trust. But you have to remember that every guy is different. Just because maybe someone else hurt you, doesn't mean he will.
So my advice to you is to either refrain from suspecting anything while you're not talking to him...or to just simply talk to him about how you're feeling when you don't hear from him...whatever's easier for you...
~Hope I helped!~
*Good luck! :)
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Agh, this is normal...I tend to feel this way sometimes. But whatever you do, do NOT break up with him just because you guys aren't talking. It depends on what he's doing that he's not talking to you. If he's hanging out with his family or something, then there's no reason to worry. If he's with friends, then why can't he text you a little? And if he's completely hiding who he is with, well that's time to give him an ultimatum, because a healthy relationship involves communication. Hun, if you have friends, they are there for a reason! Talk to em, keep your friend life and love life balanced, and if you're not so much into your friends, then just play some games, go out for a walk, surf the net, do SOMETHING! It's all about keeping yourself entertained for the good. Does your bf come see you on the daily, or at least a few times a week? Do you guys have enough time to hang out, show some affection, and make sure that you show love to one another? Make your relationship romantic, funny, and fun :] Good luck!!
-Uniq
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