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Strip Club


Question Posted Friday April 3 2009, 2:13 pm

I'm a girl. I want to go to a strip club, just to see what its like. How weird would it be to go with my boyfriend, his friend and his girlfriend? Would it be really awkward? And is it true that most of the strippers are nasty (at most clubs)? I mean I'm from Rhode Island and there really aren't any premiere strip clubs haha.

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christina answered Monday April 6 2009, 7:24 pm:
I don't think it's too weird. I'm sort of in the same situation as you. I've never been to a strip-club before & asked my boyfriend if it'd be weird to go with him. He told me no.

I also don't think it's too weird if your boyfriend's friend's girlfriend is going. Maybe you & her can bond or something.

Not all the strippers are nasty, but some can be pretty wild. However, just know that if you go & you're uncomfortable, it is okay for you to leave & not go back to a strip club. Your comfort is what's most important here.

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Ignatz answered Friday April 3 2009, 6:18 pm:
A lot of it will depend on your comfort level, and the club you choose. Premiere clubs tend to attract the best-looking dancers; smaller clubs may have less-attractive ones. It all depends on your particular tastes in female beauty.

How comfortable are you with the idea of a woman hitting on you, or appearing to? Keep in mind that the dancers are there to make money. Since you and another woman will be there, the dancers may focus on you in an attempt to get the guys with you to cough up more money. They may put your hands on them in ways that they wouldn't allow a male customer to do, or do more suggestive dancing for you, bring you up on the stage with them, etc. If you're not comfortable with that, then don't go.

Bottom line: do research. Google the names of clubs in your area; chances are you'll be able to find some information about atmosphere, prices, cover charge, etc. For your first visit, if you can manage it, I'd suggest going to a more upscale club. Going to some little joint in the middle of nowhere is probably not going to be much fun.

Hope this helps.

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