not sure if my new boy likes me or maybe i takin things too fast...
Question Posted Friday March 27 2009, 6:06 pm
ok well me and this guy have been texting and talking for a while and now we are a couple and weve been datin since the 25th of march and we dated once before at the beginning of the month but it seems like he dont like me and my friends all say hes gay and im jus a cover up and make fun of me for datin him cause hes short but i really like him but i think im takin things to fast like last nite we were textin and i was goin to bed and i said "good nite. luv ya boy! (=" and all he said was ok bye and i guess i shouldnt of said luv ya so maybe its all my fault but... i not sure im a 13 yr old girl and ive only really dated 2 guys.. and all my frenz have dated like a million! so i dont no much bout relationships! but anyways help me please!
I don't think it's weird at all that you said luv ya. And, I can't tell you for sure if you mean it - because you're the only person who knows. But, you may be his first girlfriend and he didn't know what to say back to you. He may thought if he said "luv ya 2" it may have been awkward. Who knows?
Anyways, I can't tell you by what you told me, if he likes you or not. You could just straight up ask him! It may be a little weird, but wait another week or something and just be like, "what's your favorite thing about meeeee?" and see what he says. If he says I don't know or something, then that's weird. If you get the vibe from him that he might not like you, then you definitely need to ask. You don't need to be wasting your time with this boy because there's plenty of others to date!
And don't worry! You're only 13, when I was your age I hadn't even had my first boyfriend yet. So don't compare yourself to your friends.
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