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Its a boy!
Alright so theres this guy at uni.hes just a normal guy doesnt really stand out from the crowed and kinda quiet.it seems like everytime i look at him hes looking back at me.its as if we have this subconsious conection..i dont no if he feels it but i do.i dont even know him i dont no anything about him but i think now i have a crush on him.today i saw him walk past and my heart started to burn and my stomache tingled..does this mean i liek him?i havent noticed him looking at other girls like he does with me(ok this is actually starting to sound very stupid) but why would he be looking at me would it be because hes interesting in me or just because he likes to look at things?im so confused and dont no what to do should i forget him?i have tried to smile but by the time seem to have the courage to smile he looks away or the smile doesnt come out. i want to talk to him but hes never really alone.The only time he was was at the library but i was with my friends..what should i do?are there ways i can talk to him and not look like a fool?any advice at all would be appreciated!im f/19 and havent had a bf in over a year due to the last one being abusive and cheating on me and threatning me...
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Hey. Don't worry so much about it. It's obvious you have a crush on him and clearly he's thinking about you a little more than normal since he's always looking at you. I don't think he's looking because he like to look at things haha. I think he likes you but is just too shy to go up and talk to you. And when you said he always looks away when you actually have the courage to talk to him that just means he's too nervous to make eye contact. that's a definite sign a guy likes you but doesn't want to approach you about it in fear of rejection. He's just really shy, trust me. He needs some kind of signal that you want to get to know him better so start up a conversation when you see im in the halls or something. If you keep hesitating he's going to slowly pull away. Let him know that you're there and that you're not going anywhere. About your ex being abusive and threatning. FORGET ABOUT HIM. I don't know him but I'm guessing he was a jerk and a self conceited bastard (pardon my french). You seem like a girl that deserves better. So just follow your heart. Whatever your heart tells you to do, do it. But most of all just try to communicate with this guy. Whenever you catch him looking at you, flash him a smile. He'll probably feel embarrassed that you caught him at first but then he'll think "hey she was looking at me too" so give it a shot. A simple smile could get you far. Good luck :)
love,
Rachel
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Yeah, its a crush. C'mon remember those things you has back in middle school that made your insides all wiggly? My advice: start talking to him. Maybe ask him to give you directions to a place (even if you are not planning to go there), or maybe compliment him on how fast he can text and then say "Why don't you teach me how to text like that." Asking him to help you do something helps him feel more manly, and it gives an innocent way for you to start a conversation with him.
As far as your abusive relationship, I commend you for getting out, but don't continue to allow him to have power over you. It will be hard to find trust again, but it is in there - you just may have to dig deeper than before.
Good Luck!
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i mean you could give him a chance, i know its kinda hard to trust again, but try talking to him get to know him, be friends and see if you can develop a relationship out of that.
hope i helped!
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