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how can you open if..?
im a secretive person, and i dont like telling how i feel or basically open up/secrets so i keep stuff to myself. People blabbed my secrets in the past so im really paranoid about it till now. i dont really trust anyone, but i would like to believe some people can be trusted but how can i open up if they cant keep secrets? i keep getting those impressions from other people that they might not be able to keep secrets. But i wanna have a close friendship with my new friends what should i do?
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Well first tell them unimportant things that may not destory you or anything. If they tell someone then you know you can't trust them.I know where I live I can't trust anyone either. That's jsut the people around here thats nothing I can do about that. People trust me and that's how I like it because someone always needs someone they can lean on. So I understand your need to find someone to trust. All you can do is test their trustworthiness.
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well if they don't share alot with you about other people that be meaning they don't repeat anything.. maybe when you tell them jsut say please don't repeact this anyone.. maybe thing of sone ting you can say see if anyone repeat it. if noat that mean they wouldn't repeat it.. sometimes people can't help it when people repeat it becouse they didn't ask not to or yet sometimes people think it not important to not repeat things. try explain your Reason why you don't like it everyone knows everything and such andsuch.. hope I helP!
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