normally i have no problem making my girlfriend cum by stimulating her clit, but tonight for some reason i couldnt. i kept on "losing" her clit and couldnt maintain her increasing feelings, and had to continuously start over again... this is the Worst feeling... any ideas of how i could improve/ make sure i dont "lose" her clit?
All that's messed up is your confidence. You'll have another shot. In actuality, maybe this is a good thing that it wasn't "working" this time. If you keep doing the same thing or stimulation over time it won't have the same effect on her.
You need to talk to her about what she likes other than what you mentioned didn't work last time. She's the expert on her body not you. This way if you do that you'll have room to improvise if the "tried and true" isn't coming (no pun intended by that).
We cant give those kind of tips here due to minors and site policy to protect them. Even if we could what works for one doesn't for another. Talk to your partner and explore other ideas for pleasure. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
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