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how do i tell my bf that i love her


Question Posted Wednesday March 18 2009, 9:46 pm

well me and my best freind have been friends for about a year and we are like sisters but i feel as if i want to have more i am in love with her but i am scared to tell her because i dont want to ruin our freindship because if i dont have her as a lover i want her as a friend ( sorry its so long ) please help me im so confused

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Andreaaaa answered Wednesday March 18 2009, 10:19 pm:
Your question wasn't long :)

Well, you said your like sisters, so I'm assuming your either bi, or a lesbian.

Situation A) If you know your best friend likes girls, too, then do this: Tell her how you feel about her and explain that no matter how she feels towards you, you still want to be best friends.

Situation B) If your friend doesn't know you like girls, tell her. She IS your best friend, you should be able to tell her anything without getting judged. If she's cool with it, then she's a true friend. If not, then you know someone who ISN'T a true friend. IF SHE IS cool with it while your telling her you could jokingly tell her "Don't worry, I won't hit on you, unless ya know, you roll that way, too ;)" haha :)

*Just because you like the same sex, doesn't mean you can't tell when your having a "moment" like boys and girls do, ya know? So, when your in the situation, you'll be able to feel if she's feel'n ya too.

Hope I helped! :)
Just message back if you have any other questions

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