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okay so im 15, in november i met this guy, lets call him jake. he was working and my friend is friends with him [jakes 17]. anyway so my best friend is friends with jake but hes never tried anything with her or anything so i know theyre just friends. anyway, he was working ad we walked by him and he texxted my friend saying "whos that girl your with" and my friend said "natalie, why" and he said "just wonderign". so they were texting and i was telling her that i think hes really hot and i wanna like get to know him. so while she was texting him her phone died and she asked me to text him from my phone and tell him that. so it exted him saying "hey this is natalie, kates friend, she said to text you and tell u that her phone died" and he replied saying "oh okk..guess ill have to text you now =)" so we started taklign then and we were texting all nightt. long story shortt, he made me a bet that if i wasnt at his work at 8:00 am the next morning i would have to kiss him. well, me and my friend forgot to wake up so we werent there the next morning. so that day we were texting a lot and he said i had to pay up and of course i wasnt complaining because i thought he was really cool and not to mention hott =] . so anyway, then that night he was asking me to tell him about myself and he was asking me my birthdayy, my friendss, my relationship statuss, all that stuff. so then i asked him the same questions. when i asked him if he was singlee he said 'as of a few hours ago', which means i agreed to kiss him while he had a girlfiend. but anyway, so this guy and i ended up kissing the next day and we were always texting. every time we saw eachother he kissed me hello and kissed me goodbye, and we hooked up a few times. he walked me to all of my classes and always texted me and everything. then he told me that he really liked me and i told him i liked him too. we had kind of a flirty relationship where i would text him with something like "heyy jerkk" and he would say "hey b*tch" or somethingg, but we knew we were just kidding around. so then there were rumors that we were dating but we weren't, we justs liked eachotherr and we kissed in schooland stuff. so then after like 3 months of this, we got in a big fight and didnt tlk for about 4 days. during the 4 days, my friend thats also friends with him told me that she was at his work again with one of our other friends and he texted my friend saying "whos that girl your with" and he started talking to that friend, and he said he would hook up with her. after our fight he still liked me and he said that he doesnt usually fall for girls like he fell for me and stuff. well, lately we've stopped talking and im almost positive he doesn't like me anymore, but i can't really stop thinking about him. everyone warned me about him and told me hes a player and be careful and that hes going to hurt me, but i believe him when he said he really was falling for meand stuff. i guess i was wrong about him but every time i see him i wanna talkt o him or kiss him but i dont. i really miss him a lot, but its over. does anyone have any advice for me? like how i can forget about him or maybe a way for him to start talking to me again without mentioning i miss him or like him or anything? thanks so muchh & sorry this was so long!
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heyy okay my friend pretty much went through the exact same thing your going through with this guy. i could see he wasnt good for her and that he was a player but like you said she couldnt help still liking him and thinking about him but eventually she realised she was wasting her time and that he wasnt worth it and that she deserved someone alot better. you might not think it now and its probably killing you thinking about him but trust me it will pass and you will get over him and find someone 100 times better who will treat you right and aprciate you not like what this guy did which was extremely unfair and hurtfull messing around with your feelings like that. i hate to say it but god knows how many girls he did the same thing too..he is honestly not worth it and you dont need people like that in your life keep your head up and move on itl get easier trust me =]
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... please read my column and the advice I've given others in similar situations.
This guy is a loser, plain and simple. You need to forget him and fast, and then focus on your future, not on dating.
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