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ok so ive been dating my boyfriend for about 10 months. he has always been a fan of smoking weed and so am i so it was never a big deal. but now he smokes every day and likes to smoke before everything he does. its not affecting our relationship because he is never high when we hang out alone, only when we hang out with his friends in which case i smoke too and we have a great time. but for some reason lately it has started to bother me a lot how frequently he smokes even though it doesnt affect me in any way. i want to tell him this but if i do i feel like he wont understand if its not affecting me in any way why its bothering me. i dont even know why it bothers me so much! im very confused.
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I think I know what you mean. You are bothered by the fact that he's not the person you know when he's with his friends. Like you're dating two different guys. Things tend to irritate you if you're not doing it as well. For instance, I'm an ex-smoker. People smoking around me doesn't bother me but if I spend a lot of time with a friend who smokes constantly, it starts to annoy me. It's just the way it is.
Try talking to him about it. Tell him that although it's not affecting you directly, you wish that he's smoke up less.
I'm sure he'll understand.
I hope this helped a little :)
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A lot of your confusion will go away if you heed this one little gem of advice:
Stop smoking weed.
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