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in bed how to please a guy? What are the spots they like? I am 27 year old female and need help
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Sorry about the slow response; I mostly read the site at work and this isn't something I can answer at work.
Your question sounds simple, but it's actually pretty complex given that guys are so variable. What pleases one guy may leave the next guy completely cold. With that in mind, most guys' perception of what sex is and should be have been shaped by watching porn. They expect their girlfirends/wives/dates to be like the actresses, and get disappointed if they're not. There's an excellent site called "Make Love Not Porn" that goes into the issue pretty in-depth.
If there's a regular guy in your life, the best thing to do is experiment on him. Start nibbling body parts and see what excites him. Necks and ears are very sensitive, as are the palms of the hands. Genitals are obviously very sensitive. Your mileage may vary depending on the guy, what you're willing to do, and what he likes. He may like being spanked with a hairbrush, but you may not be willing to do that.
A writer/blogger you might want to to read is Violet Blue (tinynibbles.com); she writes very well, very clearly, and very frankly about all sorts of subjects, including how to turn on guys.
Again, I apologize for the delay.
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