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I am confused about this guy situation.
Hey! OKAY so i have this confusing situation.
let me first tell you i am 17 years old & female.
alright, well. last year you i met this guy and everything was going well until i found out he had a girlfriend and then he heard some weird stuff about me that wasn't true so he stopped talking to me, that was last march. recently this year in january he started talking to me again. and everything was better then ever! about a month ago he started dating another girl, its like it all happened all over again. then theres this other guy who moved away but i still have feelings for him but we argue all the time, its just impossible for it to work. RECENTLY i met a new guy, who i have actually known for a few years but we just started talking again, he has been amazing so far. i am really happy about him. i don't know what is wrong with me.. but i just cannot stop thinking about that 1st guy..i have had feelings for him for a year now, even after all of this. and as for the guy that moved to texas, he is just too complicated for me, but i care about him tons. and this new guy i actually really do like him, alot. but it is kind of frustrating because i don't know how he feels, and i don't think i can just ask him that. What do you suggest i do?
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Well first off, forget about the guy who moved. I mean in the romantical sense, of course. You can still be friends with him or whatever, but if you two argue a lot, he obviously isn't mature enough to handle a lasting relationship. As for the first guy, this guy totally blew you off just because he HEARD some rumors that MIGHT be true, but didn't even respect you enough to ask you straight up if they were :/ sounds like a sissy to me, but I don't really know him so I won't judge. Of course, it might not hurt to continue to be friends with him, so if your other relationship doesn't work out, you'll have someone to fall back on. Also, about the whole "can't stop thinking about him" issue, I actually have experienced that. At first I thought it was love or something, but eventually I realized that the reason I couldn't stop thinking about him was because I got a rush at the thought of HIM being in love with ME, even though I knew it wasn't true deep down. I guess you could say I didn't love him, I loved the idea of being in love. I think you kind of like just thinking that there may be something beneath the friendship and he might some day admit his love to you and he will be really sweet. But it doesn't really work that way, unfortunately :( so as sorry as I am to say this, if he doesn't act interested, he's probably not. Plus if he's got a girlfriend, you definitely don't want to get tangled up into THAT drama o.o If I were you, I would get to know this 3rd guy a bit better. It sounds to me like he might be a great guy and if he doesn't already like you, he will if you keep persistant and continue trying to get close to him. You probably shouldn't ask him how he feels about you if you just met him because he might feel pressured to go out with you. However, once you get a bit more aquainted with him and get to know him better, feel free to admit your feelings to him (in the most uncreepy way possible o.o haha) and see how he replies :) Just don't come off as too pushy :) So yeah, keep up your friendship with all of them if you want, and I'm sure after you get a bit closer to them, you'll be able to narrow it down to just one guy :) Goodluck!!!
Jessica 15/f
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