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he wants to have sex..i dont..but i want to see him.
i am so sorry for the length.
hey..ive asked you questions about this situation before, i dont know if you remember, the ones about how i met this guy a year younger than me, at my best friends house, and how he wants me to do sexual favors for him and i said i would but only because i liked him [ive asked many questions about this, im not sure if you can remember] but anyways, here it goes
I am a sophomore, he is a freshman. ever since the last time we saw eachother at our friends' house [he is best friends with my friends brother] he has slowly been asking for sexual things from me, first it started out as if he could hookup with me [we tslk over facebook] then it was if he could feel me up, then it was if i would give him a handjob, [these questions came grsdually] then it was if he could finger me, then it was if he could eat me out, then it was if i would give him a blowjob, [the only thing i said yes to was him fingering me, handjob, hooking up, and feeling me up] but NOW he thinks
were having anal sex. and even regular sex. in the begining i said, i dont know about thatt i dont think thats gonna happen sorry and he would just say ugh grr haha fine. but now, he is completely convinced that we are going to do it. its starting to scare me. alright, you may think im crazy, and maybe i am. but the only reason i have been putting up with his shit is because i want to see him. i dont know why, but i just really want to see him. althougj, he treats me like a hoe and only talks to me so it can help him jack off. but im hoping he'll be his funny self when i see him. anyways, friday night i was over my friends house on her laptop in her kitchen while she was somehwere else. he IMed me and asked me to send a naked pic and i said im at my friends sorry and then he said, wow. oh my god were havin sex just send it. [by the way we arent. he just thinks we are. im just too afraid to tell him no] and then he was just being really cruel to me and demanding. he said, ugh you wouldnt send it even if you werent at your friends house, your just like that. i want it damnit.
and then i started shaking and getting scared because i didnt know what to say and i didnt want him to get angry. then he said, ugh do you want my dick or not, hoe. and i said, yo dont call me a hoe. and yeah i do. and he said, then send a pic lster. so then i just said i dont know josh..and he said, fine im fucking your vag then. and i said, do i have to..? and he said, im gonna fuck your vag now. i dont care ill bring a condom.
..thats so scary. he sounds like he wants to rape me. even at one point in our conversation a few days ago he said something like, "im gonna pin you against the wall and fuck you so hard your gonna cry" i told him that sounds like rape. because it does. i am kind of scared of him in a way..look at this conversation..[i changed the names]
Josh: your my sex slave
me: whatt.
josh:
you mess up in sex ill slap you in the face wit my cock\
me:
what the fuck
are you being serious
josh:
only if you get naughty (:
me:
haha okay
josh:
suck it till i jizz down your throat
me:
youd like that wouldnt you
josh:
you would to
me:
you dont really think of me as your sex slave do you
josh:
no
but im gonna slap you wit my cock
me:
whyyy
josh:
cuz then youll suck it
me:
ill suck it whenver i want
josh:
youll suck it when i tell you to
me:
someones being demanding
josh:
i dont care
yeahh. i cant believe he thinks im his "sex slave" that hurts. and makes me feel like im a nobody and he is using me and getting everything out of it and probobly telling all of his friends and then what am i left with? nothing. whenever i think about the things he says to me, i get this weird stomache feeling, not a good one. and im really scared because yesterday he said to me, im going to their housr tonight. i want your ass go tonight. and i said, should i ask if i can go..and he said, nah its ok. just go march 28. and i said okay, do you not want me to go tonight or something? and he said, i dont care, but im fucking your vag without a condom so..
first of all when did i ever agree to that. but i dont wanna say no because then he wont go to their house on march 28. he even said, i wont be busy if i get to fuck you. I DONT WANT TO! I WONT LET HIM. all i want to do is hookup and give him a handjob. i dont want to have sex with him, never. ever. but i cant tell him that..and then when were at their house, after they all go to sleep, he wanrs to go on the other side of their basement and do it. but i feel like..hes gonna be really mad if i tell him while hes about to do it to me..hes gonna be so pissed. and i dont want him to slap me. i want to see him though..i dont know why. what is wrong with me. im starting to scare myself
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Ok.
I wish you had linked me to your other questions, but purely from this one I can tell you're slightly crazy.
Why haven't you walked away from this.
A 14 year old asks you for sexual favors. You do things with him. You get very alarming messages and hints dropped your way, and you continue to see him.
You need to walk away. He's an idiot, and he's incredibly immature. He's acting this way because you are stupid enough to make him think its a good thing by continuing to do things with him.
Why are you doing this? At a guess, I'd say attention, possibly a thirst for acceptance. You need to walk away from this however you have to. If you have to tell your parents because you can't stop yourself, thats what you need to do.
You're horny and you have a crush on an asshole. Welcome to adult emotions. Now you need to start behaving like an adult and stop yourself even if you want to see him. You can't be a kid and just hope for the best, its not going to turn out well.
If I knew who you were, I would be on the phone with your parents at this very moment filling them in. For the simple reason that if you can't stop you, someone has to. You've already stated the end result. If you continue to see him, he is eventually going to get sick of waiting and take what he wants.
As a last note, if you put yourself in that situation, tear him a new asshole. This guy wants to get his rocks off, he might well hit you if it comes down to attempted rape, but taking a few punches is worth twisting his nutsack around twice and then pulling on it like you're fighting a tug of war. Plus, if you claw his face up and try to rip off his dick, he probably won't be able to get hard enough to do anything.
For bonus points, using your nails to rip into him gets his skin particles under your nails, and a trip to the hospital later you have court admissable evidence.
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