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how can i be.... slick
16/f
well my boyfriend has eaten me out a few times n it was great haha duh. but now i want to give him a blow job. the only problem is.. i dont know how to be smooth about it. i mean i dont just want to take it out of his pants because im kind of scared to do that. and im not the type of person to just ask if he wants a blow job. hes had sex before. alot actually. but im still a virgin and have only given 1 handjob when a guy basically put his thing in my hand and i was drunk. so i am kind of nervous that i wont do it that great because he has had alot of blowjobs so i want mine to be better. any advice? thanks!
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Haha. Bad news, I cannot teach you how to be "smooth". Just follow his non-verbal clues (or hell, even the verbal ones). Basically....just start with what you'd usually do, then make your way down. Chances are that if he doesn't want it (unlikely, but it does happen) he will simply move away and try to do something else.
Once you've established that you would like to ... ahem..."smoke the flesh pipe", the floor may be open to questions. As in "Where should I ____?", and "Do you like that?" If he likes it, he will show the classic signs like changed breathing, maybe grabbing you by the hair (or something) ,moaning. Don't worry. If he likes it, you'll know. If he's not into it, he may be too polite to say anything (or move) if there aren't any reactions, it may be time to switch it up.
Now, sadly I am NOT ALLOWED to actually describe what to do on here, anyway. If you really want me to get into detail, I have no problem e-mailing something of a "how-to" guide.
But, to wrap it up: Just dive in (so to speak) and give it a go. Ditch what doesn't work, and try again until sparks fly.
...And keep in mind, it's supposed to be a little awkward. That's all just part of the experience.
Hope this helped a little
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