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What a guy wants
I was just wondering; the media and society have plastered images into the minds of young females that all men want are beautiful girls with slim waists, big boobs, and a butt. I was wondering what guys ACTUALLY want; what they look for in girls they 1.DATE 2.MARRY 3. ARE ATTRACTED TO
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Madison
age 18
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yeah thats exactly what the media has done, but its not always true. Yes, guys are attracted to that, but personality always matters. Guys want a girl who knows what she wants out of life and a girl that he can have a good conversation with. No matter how pretty you are, if you don't have a good personality, then chances are its a turnoff. Guys want someone who is beautiful on the inside and outside.
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Hello Madison,
Most guys are attracted to pretty girls. I think this goes without saying. Body types (big boobs,being slim, etc..)totally depends on the guy. A few guys love fat girls, some guys love the athletic type, some guys love the sexy studious type. If I am forced to generalize I would say that most young guys at first think about sex, sex and sex.....therefore initially many times they try for a girl that will give them easy sex. However many times this stage passes and the guy realizes those girls will go with anyone, give them Aides,etc...the outcome not being positive.
You know the old saying, "A girl you can take home to meet mother". Generally speaking that is the kind of girl most guys will marry. A girl that is honest, helpfull and loving.
I think anyone dating should always put their best foot forward and be themselves. This will attract someone that wants you for yourself. Making yourself clean and attractive is always a plus but never go overboard on the makeup. Remember, not every girl looks like "Barbie" and not every guy looks like "Ken".
I believe that there is someone in this world for each of us. Say a prayer that God leads you to your true love. If you believe then it will eventually happen.
GL TheMaster
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Well Madison, I'm glad you asked.
And first of all, you're right. Nowadays, the media depicts a guy's desire as pure looks and not much of anything else.
First of all, we're all different. Some of us, (the superficial ones) will be into you for a short time and then forget about you like an old rag doll.
If you asked me what I look for in a girl, I'd say:
1. Her personality, a beautiful one. Smart and witty, but still humorous.
2. Her smile, her eyes. When that smile shows and those eyes sparkle, It's like we've been shot by Cupid's arrow.
3. The way she interacts with a guy and others. So, in other words, the way she reaches out to people. How open and how willing to live, learn, and love she is.
4. Her looks. Although I hate putting looks into a list, this does matter. But then again, everyone has a different taste. And for every one person in this world, there is one other meant for us, at the very least.
5. Comes anything else, etc.
So what does this all mean?
Basically, the guys who are worth staying with and loving are the ones who will look into your eyes (and not only at your butt or body)and look into you as an individual, and not some entertainment toy.
When I ask most of my friends or people I know, they say they (mostly)look for a girl who is an overall good person, smiles, is entertaining, and knows how to love & kiss.
2 quotes I enjoy mentioning:
"Guys are like parking spots; the good ones are taken, and the open ones are sometimes handicapped."
"The men who are truly honest and worth a shot at, are the ones who will still love you tomorrow no matter what."
More love in the world,
-XZ
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