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help - I need advice!
My girlfriend won't perform oral sex on me and I'm getting pretty angry about it.
I've talked to her about it and once I even tried to force her down but she just kept resisting. She says she thinks penis is disgusting. What do you think?
Do you think she's a lesbian maybe?
What can I do to get a blowjob from her?
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Okay, for starters: you cannot force somebody to do something they don't want to do.
Different people have different views about certain subjects and it's clear that your girlfriend doesn't want to have oral sex with you. To be honest, I'm surprised that she hasn't broken up with you, reading how you've treated her because if sounds as if you're treating her like some sex object whom you think will obey your every wish and command. Forcing her down??????????????? That has to be the lowest thing I can think of somebody doing.
News flash: she has a mind of her own and can decide for herself whether she wants to have oral sex with you or not and you have to respect her decision since she is your girlfriend. Respect her views on the subject and leave it at that.
Just because she doesn't want to give you a blowjob, doesn't mean she's a lesbian at all. And to be quite honest again, your mentality of the situation baffles me: so just because she doesn't want to give you a blowjob, you begin to think that she's a lesbian. Well if she was, then why is she going out with you?
Personally, I think you should reconsider having a girlfriend because evidently your priorities are skewed about what having a girlfriend is all about because it isn't just about sex you know. Having a girlfriend means that you're with somebody you care about and respecting them as a person. You clearly haven't reached that level of mentality.
If she wants to give you a blowjob, it has to be in her own time and space, IF she wants to give you one. If she doesn't, as I said, then leave it at that and don't talk about it.
Seriously, re-think about what having a girlfriend means.
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