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okey so im 15/f and ive never had a boyfriend.
ive made out with two boys in my whole life. and its not like im ugly or weird or anything. alot of guys have flirted with me and shit but its like they just movee on. what should i do and act around boys im interested in and stuff? too bee more flirty and outgoing? no onee has asked me out yet its pathetic rawwr lol help pleaseee.
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well dont try too hard because you will just come off as desperate, try something new with your looks...cut or color ur hair to something pretty or something like that...
be a little flirty and outgoing but with a limit, make friends with guys and meet more people, like this you'll know more guys..
and dont be impatient, the right guy will come as long as you dont just go for the first guy that asks you out :)
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I know it is hard to see now - but be patient! Your world will soon change.
14/15 is just the START of the dating age, and more girls are into relationships than guys. The guys are just now getting up the guts to flirt. Most guys as this age don't make great boyfriends anyway.
The next two years will be MAJOR for dating. You will see a lot more couples and a more maturing for the guys. You will find yourself not wanting just 'a boyfriend' but a 'certain boy'.
As far as what you should do - yeah, definitely be fun and outgoing - but be yourself!!!
Girls that are TOO loud and forward can be viewed as obnoxious and just trying to get attention. This actually turns guys off.
Just like you see guys that are major flirts as 'not serious' guys see girls the same way. They will flirt back, and that IS fun, but they won't read anything into it other than flirting and having fun.
Also - don't confuse your dating value (personality/looks) with having a boy. With or witout a boyfriend, you are HOT!
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Be yourself, and dont be desperate. im 15 too. i have had 2 bfs, tho both were total retards (not litterally, but pretty close.) and they are just sick. well anyways, embrase your singleness, your independance. you have your whole life to fall in love and find someone. try to focus on school and friends, and a guy will find you. im sorry if this isnt what you want to hear, but i've told many of my friends this, and eventually a guy finds them.
Just be yourself, and i hope i have helped
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First of all, always be yourself never act a certain way just to get attention. If you just be you then people will find you and want to be with you. As for being flirty with people you like, go for it! Flirt have fun, you are only 15 and you have the rest of your life to meet tons of people so, just have fun! Don't be afraid to be the first one to ask out a certain guy you've been eyeing, there's no rule saying that he has to ask you first. In fact most boys like it when a girl in confident and brave enough to make the first move.
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