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i went on vaca, fell for a guy, came home, and lost feelings for my bf of 6 months. weve been fighting, and i wanted to b/u with him cuz i still like the other guy. my bf clearly has much more feelings for me then i do for him. im too scared to break up with him. i tried and the words didnt come out. i ended up saying something else. i dont know how to gather up the courage to do it. we stopped fighting, and unless we start fighting agiain, i dont think i could just say what i want to say out of nowhere. will i know when the right moment is or will i keep putting it off until he breaks up w. me?
i just need some support here lol im very stressed and i have no clue what to do. thanks
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for a moment i thought i wrote this myself...the exact same thing happened to me...
im sorry but you have to get courage and tell him..right now ur just hurting him and the time passing is not gonna help, if anything he's just gonna bring up the fact that u didnt do it before in future fights...
plz just do it and get it over with because being with him is not going to help at all.
hope it helped :]
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First thing is you should be honest with him. If you don't have the same feelings for him as he does you, then tell him. Don't bring it up random, ease into it. There is no right moment to hurt someone you care about. But its better to tell him now, the longer you wait, the harder it will hurt him.
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Hi there =]
I know you said you wanna break up with him, but can I set a couple questions to ask yourself, maybe think things over.. So you met this new guy while on vacay and fell for him... do you think long distance relationships will work for ya'll two? In my opinion, all couples fight and say and make up... has your bf been there for you through everything? Accept you for who you are and loves you truly? Does he try to make you happy and stay faithful? I don't think it's quite right to throw your boyfriend away just because you have developed feelings for a new stranger, you know? Perhaps make a list of pros and cons about both guys... And check who comes out on top.. Im pretty sure your bf will... BUT, if you don't wanna be committed, simply explain you think it's better to be friends because you're not ready to be in a committed relationship.. don't lead him on... good luck hun!
Uniq =]
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