He lied to me about drinking. He did it in front of me one night and i said dont do it again and dont lie to me about it like he did before. Then he snck behind my back and did it again and when i found out, it wasnt him who told me. So i was mad at him all today, but i dont know what i should do now?? Its hard to trust him when he lies and i am giving him a third chance. He said he will try to stop drinking but its hard for him. What should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Genesis17 answered Tuesday March 3 2009, 11:52 am: It seems like for him this is more that just you asking him not to. its actually difficult for him to stop. so try to help him stop. try to help make it a little easier. because it sounds like he's not just doing this to make you angry, he's doing because he's having a hard time stopping himself. so maybe just ask him, you know, if this is hard for you to stop doing then what can i do to help you or make things easier for you. see what he says. i think if he sees that you care, and your not just going to get angry at him for doing it, he'll feel more comfortable with opening up to you about why he does it. so try this, and let me know how it gois. good luck! [ Genesis17's advice column | Ask Genesis17 A Question ]
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