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this guy from a different school and i are really complicated. im a virgin and hes a huge fan of sex and random hookups. we have talked a million times about it and hes being nice. well we sort of had a thing before, like we liked each other and would hang out but he was really busy with snowboarding.. hes really amazing at it and i swear hes gonna be pro some day. well we still talked but things just werent working well because he was too busy for any girl. now were back to having a thing and liking each other. he says he really cares about me and isnt going to make me do more than im willing, which he never has, he makes a suggestion but doesnt force it to happen if i say no. still, i fear he just wants to use me. he really wants to do me and knows im planning on only losing it if im in a relationship. he says he wants a relationship with me even though he didnt want a high school relationship. he was calling every night and saying some cute texts. we hung out last night and made out. he was respectful of my morals as always. he slept at my guy friends house whos my neighbor then snuck back out to be with me again. we made out some more in my bed and cuddled for like an hour and a half. then my neighbor called saying my guy needed to hurry back. this morning he dropped by for a little to pick up his wallet, kiss me, then leave to visit his grandpa in the hospital. he hasnt talked to me really today so finally i tried talking to him. he didnt really seem to want to talk just told me his grandpas doing well. he didnt call and i called him a lot later. he didnt pick up. idk if he just got annoyed i wouldnt do more with him which he tried to hint at, or if im just being crazy because i like him so much, or what. he said last nightt he had fun but i dont know. it seemed like he did. i hope he really does like me and isnt looking to use me. im just so afraid, ive been hurt so many times. do you think he really does like me or is just looking to get some?
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He probably was annoyed with the fact that he didn't get more out of you. Why? Because he's use to always going all the way with the ladies and hooking up. But you're different, you are not just going to be another hook up. You want more, so act like it. He apparently didn't want to be with all the girls he hooked up with, maybe beacuse they were so easy. You're not, you're different.
My advice to you is to take a chance with him. I'm not telling you to have sex with him to keep him interested. Keep doing what you are doing. If he cares about you then he would understand. If he doesn't and breaks it off with you solely because he wants more, he isn't worth your time anyways.
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