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How should I handle this situation with my boyfriend?
I am here because I have a situation that is driving me insane, and I need some help with it. My boyfriend has been calling me everyday, and for the past two days I have not heard anything from him. He will not answer my calls or read my text messages. The last time he called me was Friday. He told me that he had to work late, and he would call me the next day when he came in. He lives at the Salvation Army, and I called there after not hearing from him. They told me that he was on weekend pass. I can't believe he lied to me. He knows I worry about him. Why would he do this to me? I have been worried sick over this. I have called him numerous times and also texted him. He will not answer the phone. Sometimes it rings and sometimes it just goes straight to voicemail. This is really driving me insane. This hurts me so bad that he would do this. I don't understand why he is avoiding me because I have his tax check that he asked me to hold for him. All of this makes no sense. What am I supposed to do? Do I stop calling or what? I need some help dealing with this please.
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Well he is obviously ignoring any calls and txt from you. so stop calling and txting. eventually he will have to get in contact with you. personally if it were me, when he called i wouldn't go all angry on his ass. i'd kinda give him a taste of his own medicine. when he calls i'd be like "o hey, your alive. whats up do you need something?" .. the thing is he's expecting you to be all upset with him and worried. when you act calm he'll be like "wtf?" then kind of take it easy for the next few days. then when the weekend comes around, just stop txting calling him. go out with your girlfriends and have a fun girls weekend. when you get home, see how many messages there are from him ;]. trust me, suddenly he'll never go out for days and not let you know where he is ;]. cuz now he'll get how nerv-wrecking it is. overall the lesson in this is........
*the more you act as though your not afraid of losing him, the more afraid he'll be of losing you*
hope this helps =]. gooood luck!
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I'd wait until you hear from him. Let him tell you where he has been and don't let on that you know about the pass. See if he lies to you more. If he does, I say to get rid of him. If a bf/gf lies about their where abouts.....it is bad news. It usually means that they are with another guy/girl or doing something they don't want you to know about like getting drunk or using drugs. It's about impossible nowaday to be in a place where you can't get to a phone. most people have cell phones. it's not like he couldnt reach you or leave you a voicemail. Personally, I'd be done with anyone in this situation.
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