Question Posted Saturday February 28 2009, 12:49 pm
I have been dating my boyfriend Joe for a while now and he keeps saying he's going to kiss me but never does! i love him and he loves me but i'm already emotionally connected to him and i'm definitly sexually attrackted to him but how do i like get him to kiss me like hints if you could give me more then 1 answer that would be great.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Genesis17 answered Saturday February 28 2009, 5:05 pm: Well it really all depends on the guy. Some will give in to certain things, that others wont.Some are turned on by things, that other aren't. first of all here are a few things that might be going through his head...
1. he might not be the type to make the first move. he might like a more aggressive girl who takes the initiative.
2. he actually just really isn't ready.
3. has he kissed someone before? because he could be feeling insecure.
Honestly just be more flirty, and every once in a while lean in and give him a peck on the side of his mouth. not quite on, but just kind of teasing.. like leaving it up to him to do more. Or you could try whispering something (;]) in his ear, and softly nibble/lick it (sounds weird, but its worked b4. depending on the guy, it can really turn them on), whatever you want, to kind of get him in a more physical mood. I'm sure he wants to kiss you, he just either doesnt know how to go about it, or he's never kissed someone and is feeling insecure about himself and how good or bad he might be at it.
hope this helps. let me know if i could help you more =] [ Genesis17's advice column | Ask Genesis17 A Question ]
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