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loosing connection.
So, last year my social life was great! I had a pretty much bf who i was either with or talked to everyday! My best friend who was loyal and we always had fun, and so many other friends! I had alot of guy friends too. Well ever since last May .. I found out that my best friend and boyfriend have been hooking up constantly. I knew they madeout once but apologized and really upset, so i forgave them ( last feb) Anyways I guess they kept hooking up behind my back, and I got really mad. He and I kinda stopped talking, but she always acted like everything was fine. Well I was really hurt.. and she didn't really care. So I started drifting from her to my other close friends. Anyways this year I dont have as many guy friend, My ex bf and best friend are together. I dont have as many friends, Im not as popular, and I feel like I did something . I have been getting alot of " you seem sad" or "whats wrong lately" Also! me and my ex did start getting back together around July but stopped in Sept. I miss him, but things won't work . I have started talking to her again in some classes. But I don't know how to get my other guy friends back. They are claiming im "annoying" now. But i didn't do anything! If i talk to them they'll just be like "shut up, your gay." I dont know , maybe im parinoid..? I mean the friends I have are great, But I miss haveing so many!
And so sorry this is long and i made you read :p
<3 xoxo thanks!
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Are you talking to your old friends about the problems with whats her name and the ex.. If so they prob dont wanna hear baout it.. Honestly that guys sucks(your ex) and some does that backstabbing friend.. every women knows the rule
"Any of your friends boyfriends are off limits!!" That must of really hurt you honey, But let those fools be together because what goes around comes around. And as far as needing more friends I would rather have 1 good best friend than 12 backstabbing idiots frinds that tell me Im gay!!
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Maybe you should appreciate the friends you do have. And reevauluate those you do call 'friend'. Your so called 'best friend' is obvisiously a friend you can do without. The first time they hooked up should have been a red flag. They weren't that sorry if they repeatedly did it again and again after their apology. They even went together afterwards. They do not deserve to have a friend or girlfriend like you. And you deserve better. Want more friends? Be sociable with new people. You will have a fresh start with these ones. Want a new boyfriend? Put yourself out there with new guys...
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You're not paranoid, and this isn't really your fault.
First, just inhale and exhale.
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The word friend is tossed around a lot these days, almost anyone can be anyone else's friend by meeting someone at work, school, or some place else.
What many people don't see, or forget about, are the real friends in our lives that can almost feel what we feel.
From time to time, we'll meet people who we think are amazing, and we want to spend time with...
But as time ticks by, we realize that some friends are just people we meet in the heat of the moment.
That, and friends change as time goes by. The people I used to call friends, are now just casual friends I see every now and then.
Sometimes we don't even say hi.
This sounds hard, but you just need to move on. Let go of the past and the people who hurt you or betrayed you.
And smile when you see real friends every day.
Peace & <3,
-XZ
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