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Confused... 16/F
So my boyfriend and me have been dating for a year, He has cheated on me twice, but not recently. We have never been the fighting type but the past couple of months we have fought a lot. Im kind of losing feelings for him, but on our year anniversary he gave me a promise ring, and i dont know what to do. I mean i love him and i think i always will, and i think im scared to be without him because i've been with him so long and i wont know what to do. Im really confused. can you please help?? Thanks =]
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I dont know what reasons you guys are fighting for, but it could possibly be that the cheating is subconsciously getting at you and making it easier for you guys to find something to fight about. Maybe? If you forgave this guy because you really love him that much then thats cool, but have you considered taking a break? Most people dont believe in breaks because they say they dont get back together but thats not always true. You need to talk to your boyfriend before you decide on anything. Tell him you feel like you two have been fighting so much and why he thinks you guys are and from there he'll give his input. You guys both might agree to take a break or agree to try to stop fighting. But if you dont say anything to him you'll be putting all the pressure on your self to make the relationship better when clearly a relationship is a two way street, so let him meet you half way. =] ]
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