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sexually active...sort of.
i dont have sex every day, but i do at least 2 to 3 times a month. i asked my mom when a girl needed to start having gyno exams, and she said when someone is sexually active.
i told her im not, because i wanted to avoid a conflict..and disappointment. but since im sexually active, i think i should start seeing a gynochologist. i cant drive, though. (im 16, im just a little late on the whole permit/license thing)
how am i supposed to be sure im healthy without telling my mom im having sex?
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I'm not sure where you live but in my area we have a place called planned parenthood. They take people that are under 18 years old and its private they dont tell your parents or anything. They do full gynecological exams and test for stds and even give birth control. And if you are under 18 all of the services are free. Their website is www.plannedparenthood.org and it tells you all about the orginazation and where they are located.
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When you go to your regular doctor for a checkup he/she will ask if your sexually active. Tell him/her yes and they will set it up for you. If you want to keep it confidential, have your parents drop you off at the doctors and pick you up after. Your doctor will not tell your mom about the exam because anything done is confidential. Your doctor can't tell your parents.
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Sorry this isn't wonderful and your likly to not like it so i apoligise ahead of time
YOU HAVE TO TELL YOUR MOM!! because she wll want to know. and sure she will understand if not i'm sure she will love you
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