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E-mail: cjschnell@yahoo.com
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Location: grand island, nebraska
Age: 18
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i dont have sex every day, but i do at least 2 to 3 times a month. i asked my mom when a girl needed to start having gyno exams, and she said when someone is sexually active.

i told her im not, because i wanted to avoid a conflict..and disappointment. but since im sexually active, i think i should start seeing a gynochologist. i cant drive, though. (im 16, im just a little late on the whole permit/license thing)

how am i supposed to be sure im healthy without telling my mom im having sex?

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Sorry this isn't wonderful and your likly to not like it so i apoligise ahead of time

YOU HAVE TO TELL YOUR MOM!! because she wll want to know. and sure she will understand if not i'm sure she will love you


okay so i got an itouch and i get free wifi with it except i dont have a wireless connection in my house so i was going to buy a router for it except my parents dont want it because they said people could pick up our wifi and steal like credit card numbers or private things from our computer and hack in is that true? and cant i just use it for my itouch and my wi console and not the computer itself? thanks! (link)
As far as I can find, they can't hack that stuff because all they can do is borrow your connection
with say their laptop but I'm no profetional you can check with a company who gives the service they are legally bound to tell you if it does


13/f
okay i got my very first period on January 31,08
and i havnt got it since.
when do you think i will get it again?? (link)
well it depends on the girl considering that you spock won't regulate for a few years best bet is to ask your mom that because it will probaly will follow the same pattern


Does anyone remember the america's next top model (i'm guessing its cycle 3, but i have no clue. tyra's hair was red,medium length, and volumous.hahha, if that helps)
(it was also on about a week ago)

where that girl Cassie was bulemic? And, she had those low-carb brownies; (someone wrote in them, clean your s$%#$^~it was a "big deal")

Does anyone have any idea where i can find pictures of her? i love her hair color. =P (link)
punch her name into google images works like a charm


i have braces and just got rubber bands in a few days ago, but my gums are now dark red and hurt. could i be allergic to the rubber bands ?

THANKS (link)
its highly possibal i would talk to your denvest about secondary options asap


So the Bibble say not to have tatto's. I think that's because God dosnt want you to hide or ruin (or somthing like that) what he created. So why isnt it the same way with make up? Its still hiding what God created. Does anyone know why wearing make up is diffrent? All answers apreciated. (link)
the bible really don't say anything about either


ok, I'm 13 and I babysit for this lady who has three kids. One is autistic. She pays me $10. Not an hour. The whole 4-6 hours I babysit. It doesn't seem fair to me but I hate to say something because she is a close friend of my mom and has done many things for our family. Her family doesn't have a whole lot of money either. what should i do? (link)
well autisim isn't that big of a disorder i know this because i have the same thing it just means that they need a little extra attention and maybe a learning disability but not a reson to charge more sorry i was blunt just one of those things :-)



Okay, so I started my diet on around Tuesday, and what I'm doing is cutting out unhealthy snacks and substituting them with like healthier ones and sometimes Ill cut out snacks all together but if I am craving something its healthy. and now I'm also starting to run with my brother. I have a habit of going on diets and then stopping them as soon as I lose a few pounds but I want to do something that will keep me on track and ENJOYING the diet, not doing it because I need to and want to and because it seems like one extra chore.
My boyfriends prom is in june or july and my sweet 16 is in september i want to lose 15 or 20 pounds before this.

what are some more good ways to lose weight healthy and affectively?

by the way I'm 15, 5'2 or 5'3 and around 180 pounds (overweight for my height) so this diet needs to work.

thanks in advance!
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well if you notice that your having problems completing this diet join a support group this might be a good idea any way because everything is easy when you got help


does anyone know any good things to say when you prank call. i have good ones but i used them all and i need some new things to say.. haha i like to prank my friends, they never know its me and i like to mess with them. (link)
well the popular one in our family is to convince the person they called you (it really works) bonus you can use it more than once


Well for the past year i feel as if i put about 85% of the effort in me and my boyfriends relationship. Now he is a good boyfriend but its just the way i feel. Well i let my jelousy get in the way of our relationship ( so he says .) And he broke up with me monday night , But tuesday he told me how big of a mistake he made and he was truly sorry , he loved me with all his heart etc. But i want him to ( need me now ) . This whole year it was like he was my " Life support ". And when he had broken up with me my heart was broken and i mean broken . And i realized it wasnt healthy to be where i have to depend on a guy. I love him so much but this time around id like to turn the tables , ya know ? I took my moms advice ( not to call , text him etc. but to let him do all the calling ) and it worked , yesterday i only called one time and he called me 3 or 4 times , when usualy its me caling like every 10 mins . its hard but it makes me feel as if im not the " damsal in destress " . But how do i get him to be more ( on me , than me on him ) if that makes sence . I dont call him , he calls me ... What else . i want him to cator to me now . I love this boy , hes a major part in my life . This sunday will be our year . Advice please & no stupid stuff please . thanks :) (link)
some guys are lazy in when it comes to calling and things like that well girls are normally the social type guys generally say whats up to each other and thats it


know.
f/14
how do you see the unseen?? my friend told me that if i wanted to realize something that is between me and her that i would have to see the unseen..can anyone help me? i'm just really confused.. (link)
what she means is note what your not paying attention to and how she reacts to it if she likes it or not




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