Question Posted Wednesday February 18 2009, 9:30 am
Hi this guy from uni was looking at me alot especially after we were introduced. At first it was creepy but then i just happened to catch the bus with him he joined me in the line he was standing towards the front and he saw me coming, stared, waved and gestured for me to come forward but i didnt and just said i dont like to push in but he came to bak and we talked. He's a nice guy but the weird thing was tht he mentioned a friend of his and said he's the same religion as u (which to me was weird) and then when i said oh ok he just suddenly goes but he doesnt go for indians he goes for asians and im like oh ok well maybe i wont go for him i dont go for conventional guys.
Also after we first got introduced he sat next to me in lectures twice with none of his friends around.
he flirted with me on msn a bit just like "if you wear this to uni then ill wear my embarrassingly big sunnies" and we even argued a bit i know ths flirting but now well its been months since we've talked and i dont think he's interested he hasnt asked for my number or anything. I like this guy but i dont know wht to do i mean i just want him to be honest if tht makes any sense?
anyway i thought he liked me now with this dry spell i dont realy know how to react. i hope you can help me.
i'm 19 and a girl
i'm from australia
Honestly, it sounds like he might like you too. He might be shy. The most outgoing guys can turn into shy puppies when they are around someone they are interested in.
The thing is, maybe he thinks that YOU are not interested in him anymore. Or maybe he had a personal situation that forced him to neglect the chemistry you guys had. Don't jump to conclusions and think that he is just not interested.
If you really want to know whats going on maybe you can catch him on msn and say something like "Hey stranger, I haven't heard from you in a while. I hope that you are o.k!" Show some concern (not too much), give him that feeling that you are generally a caring person.
If he does not return the feelings then you might just have to move on. Take it one step at a time and try not to rush anything ( DO NOT bombard him with messages). I believe that you will be o.k. If he does not realize that a great girl like you has a crush on him then it is his loss. I hope that his helps!!! GOOD LUCK, GOD Bless!!! [ Mystique23's advice column | Ask Mystique23 A Question ]
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