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what did i do?!
hey i was hoping maybe you could help me understand this guy and why he did this to me..
well there is this guy who is a year younger than me who is friends with my friends brother and i met him at her house back in december. weve been talking here and there on facebook and i saw him again at their house in january. after i saw him there we would talk and he told me how he really wants me badly and how he wanted to do all of these sexual things with me [i think he was just going to use me] also something else that is weird is that he likes this girl who lives an hour away who he only sees once a year and im pretty sure they are going out. but anyways i didnt think he cared if he had a gf so far away and talked to me like that too. one night we were talking and he pressured me into sending a picture, he said hed be mad if i didnt.. but it wasnt a bad one i had clothes on..but after i sent them i looked at his fb wall and that girl had wrote, I LOVE YOU TOO!!!! so i think they are going out. and it bugged me because he was talking to me like that WHILE he was saying "i love you" to that other girl? i dont understand. but anyways, about two weeks ago I IMed him because he hadnt IMed me since i sent those pics and i was confused. and basically our whole conversation was him begging me to give him a bj. i kept on saying no i dont think so sorry but he kept asking and making me feel bad..at the end of the conversation he just said i want a deep throat from u sexy ;] and then he said for me to text him. so i did. but his phone was off and he didnt get it until two days later but then never responded..
so JUST NOW i decided to IM him..only because we havent talked in two weeks and i dont understand why..i thought maybe its because he hadnt seen i was online at the same time or something. so i IM him and all i get from him is, hi
which is weird because i usually always get a hey. and HE usually IMs me first.
then i go, whatsup
and he just never answered. what the hell did i do. i mean i know that he has friends that go to my school and i feel like MAYBE his friends said something about me to him or something? i dont think so..i think im just paranoid. but i mean he didnt treat me nice at all or anything but i just dont see why he doesnt want me anymore, why so sudden. what did i do to make him not wanna talk to me anymore, i mean, two weeks ago he was like drooling over me and now its like he wants nothing to do with me. im so confused and i feel so bad about myself and ugly. please tell me what it was that i did. im really so confused?! like..he always told me how badly he wanted me, he really wanted to do stuff with me, but not all of the sudden im just nothing. he doesnt even want to talk to me. i really dont know what i did wrong..maybe he thinks im ugly now or something because maybe his friends from my school told him im ugly. but im not ugly. he told me im really hot. like all the time. so ..i dont get this. at all. i just feel stupid for IMing him now.
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wow, this guy sounds really immature. you never said how old yall are, but he sounds like he's about 14/15? stop talking to him. ALL he wanted was to use you. did he ever once say anything along the lines of you're cool, he likes to hang out with you, he likes to talk to you? no, it was all you're hot, i want a deep throat, etc etc. he just wanted you to be his little play toy. and when he kept asking and you said no, he lost interest quick because he couldn't get what he wanted, even when he threw in a compliment here and there. he stopped IMing/texting you because he wasn't INTERESTED in YOU, he was just interested in you blowing him and making him horny from pictures. you did the right thing by saying no and NOT giving him what he wanted, so dont feel bad at allll because he's totally in the wrong here, not you. whether or not he is dating that other girl, well it's possible, which is even more the reason for him to not be asking you for things. seriously, stop talking to him. he's really low.
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