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Still love ex


Question Posted Sunday February 15 2009, 12:58 am

I broke with my bf of 4 months because his best(who likes me) said he didn't care. A week later I found out he did care and was upset that i dumped him. I told him i still love and want to be with him but he doesn't wanna be with me. I don't know how to get over him.

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miss_kelly93 answered Sunday February 15 2009, 7:15 pm:
im confused as well.
his best friend likes you? or he said he didnt care anymore? but its hard to stop loving the one you fell hardest for.

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thelaura answered Sunday February 15 2009, 12:21 pm:
I'm not quite understanding this fully. You dumped your boyfriend because his mate didn't care? Since when was his friend part of YOUR relationship?
You really did mess up here and it's not surprising he doesn't want to take you back.
My advice would be to give him a bit of time to cool off. Who knows - he might actually miss you.
Once you've give him a bit of time (and yourself) you can begin to explain yourself fully and let him know it was a huge mistake. I'm sure you've already tried to reason with him, which might make it different this time round if you give him some space first.
At the end of the day, it's his decision whether you two can put things past you and try again. but if he doesn't want to, simply let it be a lesson learnt to you - never let other people interfere with your relationship.
It's gonna suck at first but a true way to get over someone is by giving it time and to do things to take your mind off it. Someone else will come along eventually.

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TheTruth answered Sunday February 15 2009, 5:38 am:
Honestly, if you broke up with him over something his friend said, you deserve what comes to you. You won't get over him any faster, but in the future, try to not make decisions like that. Other people's feelings matter too.

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