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hate my parents, especially my dad and i'm a only child and need to talk
I hate my parents so much, my mom is a stupid self-centered hippie bitch and she always wants attention in public. My dad is so mean to me, if he doesn't get his way in a argument he just tells my mom lies or stretches the truth a LOT so that she won't even listen to my side of the story and just lets him do whatever to me. She always believes him and never me because I'm "disrespectful" to them but thats because they always leave my problems with them and we never talk about them but everything that I do that's wrong gets recognized RIGHT AWAY. Anything good I do is never recognized. AND my dad hits me and nobody believes me, probably because I act stupid annoying and selfish and outgoing but thats just because nobody cares at home and I don't want to be a stupid dork. I hate my parents so much I wish they were dead, I'm not just saying that becuase I'm a teenager or anything I really do want to kill them both or kill myself to show them and maybe people will recognize me and then my parents will look back and think "huh maybe we should have paid attention to her and not just fucking ignored her and hit her and ditched her in the middle of nowhere" and then I'll be up in heaven laughing at them crying over my body. I know I sound like a crazy bitch who wants attention but I really would like to kill myself so that they realize that they're not going to have a relationship with they're daughter. Oh well fuck them.
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You've just let out what you've felt, although I do get the impression that you don't treat them with respect, judging from what you've said here.
You have to relax, if your parents don't want to listen to you, for a while, don't tell them things or ask things.
I know some people want more attention than others...but bitching about it isn't going to change anything, that's the way the person is...
Take it easy for a few weeks, avoid getting into arguments with your dad. Sometimes it's easier to just let him win without the argument, I should know, I always argue with my dad. Like, ALWAYS!
Then, send them a letter, email it or hand write it and leave it where they will find it, for instance their bedroom dresser.
If you're not around whilst they read this, they will think about it a bit more, and when they notice that you've written a letter to explain your feelings, they should understand.
When you talk to them, stay calm, don't bitch at them, don't walk off screaming or anything, act like a mature person.
And killing yourself isn't going to make things better. You will leave the world, hating your parents. Suicide doesn't change anything. And you really wouldn't enjoy watching parents grieve their child.
And if they were dead, you wouldn't be happy. You may think so now, but if it did happen, you would regret thinking such thoughts for the rest of your life.
So, stop being so bitchy about everything, treat them with respect. I know you're pissed off, but being the way you are right now makes your seem more immature to your parents.
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