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it might be long but please give me some advice, thank you


Question Posted Thursday February 12 2009, 9:04 am

well, i'll introduce myself first, call me sha, i'm 14, a sophomore, mmmm to start things off, i like this guy, he's a sophomore as well, and he also likes me... yeah, were really close (when were together my best friends would always comment that were like husband and wife, so sweet that ants are sorrounding us), mmmm were in mutual understanding and all not BF/GF but its a "together-but-not-yet" situation (so i don't get why they said were like a couple and all)

mmmm well i'll be leaving in a year or 2 to canada cause of my dad's business, also we can't visit the phil. then cause were going for citizenship and all, but i really am grateful that were not leaving, not up till i finish my high school years, graduation... and that he can visit me every vacation in canada...

mmmm i just want to ask advice about, what should i do, i might get insecured not being near him, or on how could i keep our good relationship up till were done with college...

and also i've been kind of the fragile type these days, not because i'm leaving after highschool but because 2 of my bestest friends would leave by next school year leaving me and my 1 remaining best friend, even though i have closefriends their different cause their the ones i'm always with, also i have low chances of being classmates with that 1 remaining bestie of mine...

my point is i don't want to break when i leave for canada, even now just thinking about it makes me cry a little...

sorry for the long story, please give me some advice...THANK YOU


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karenR answered Friday February 13 2009, 7:19 am:
Concentrate on Now, not whats going to happen in 2 years. In all honesty, a relationship that starts at 14 will very rarely end in true love and marriage. If it does that's wonderful, but chances are the relationship will be over before you leave 2 years from now. That would be normal. So give it a chance because you never know.

If in 2 years the relationship is still going strong and you love each other, then your leaving
will only be an inconvenience. You will keep in contact via computer until you are together again.
Apply for colleges in an area that makes dating convenient if possible.

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