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something from my heart
hey this is ammie. i m 19 yrs old.i just have a very odd problem.almost two yrs ago i met a guy.and i kindda fell in love with him but i could not say it to him.he was my teacher actually.and i tried to be as calm as possible.there is no way i can see him and i cant stop missing him.and the grip of his love seems to be strenthenig with the passage of time.tell me what should i do.i hope that u understand my problem.i feel very heartbroken and the idea of spending my whole life without him is just so painful.waiting for your answer
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Hi Ammie: Yeh, you do seem to have a dilemma here. The only thing you can do honey is to face him. You may just have had a crush on him and if you see him now, you might just ask yourself what you saw in him in the first place, You might find that by facing him today your crush has worn off. He may have been a good teacher and probably very cute. So be brave and go see him. Tell him that you had a crush on him and see how he responds. It's the only way you will know for sure what could have been or if it was in fact just a crush. If he is married or seeing someone seriously then forget about him. I feel it is very wrong to break up a relationship. Ask him first if he is married or not or in a serious relationship. If not be honest with him about the feelings you had in the past for him. He will either tell you there is no chance for a relationship with him or...I personally know a woman who fell in love with her guidance councillor and when she graduated she made her feelings known to him and to her surprise, the feeling was mutual. They have been married over 20 years now. They have 16 years between them but they are very happy. So, go for it. What do you have to loose? If you can't get him out of your mind after all this time then you owe it to yourself to find out if there is any possibility of a relationship with him. Do you believe he had some kind feelings for you?
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