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wat shuld i do
wat shuld i do
i really love this girl but she keeps lying to me and i think without honesty and trust a relationship cant work.
ive been with her for one month and it was love at first sight i just dont kno whether to stay with her because she keeps lying
wat shuld i do
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Well, first of all, what does she keep lying about?
I'm going to assume that her lying is about things you need to trust her with, and she is not making this easy for you. A girl who lies is never good to stay with. It means that they are either insecure, or willing to use and abuse you. She thinks you will always be there no matter what she does even if she lies to you. And if shes ALREADY lying to you after a month, that is SERIOUSLY not a good sign, it means that she probably will cheat on you secretly and you'll never know about it. Sneaky girls liek this are ones you should stay away from.
If I were you, I would get out of this relationship while you can. It'll be upsetting for a little bit, but why put yourself through this? She doesn't deserve you. She LIES to you. What kind of a girlfriend lies to their wonderful boyfriend? a bad one. You deserve so much better than that, you deserve the truth. So I suggest talking to her about this. Tell her how you feel, straight up; no beating around the bush. Tell her that you can't stand her lies and that unless she changes her ways, you don't want to be with someone who lies.
But remember, if she says she'll change her ways, she most likely won't. once a liar, always a liar. This is a hard habbit for her to brewak because she thinks she can lie to you and get away with it. Wouldn't you rather being in a relationship where you can trust her and not be calling her out on her lies? Think how much more easy and fun it would be. This girl isn't worry. But it's totally up to you. Everything is up to you. Although, if you decide to break up with her [which would be very smart of you :)] you don't have to cut he rout of your life completly, you can still be friends, just not the ones who date. One day she'll relaize that her lying is wrong. And maybe, your not being with her anymore will give her a dose of a reality and she'll see the worng in her ways.
But I promise that there are WAY better girls out there who you deserve. You deserve the best. And she isn't the best.
Hope I helped, and if you have any other questions or anything at all, even if you just want to talk, don't hesitate to inbox me. I hope this all works out for you, keep me posted ! xxo :] good luck !
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