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Get over it
Yeah I've asked you questions before and we broke up today. My friends came up to me and were like, "He's gonna break up with you and you need to do it before he does, ect" I was like okaay...they were way more mad than I was. He asked one of them, "If I weren't going out with her, would you go out with me?" She told him no, its gross and ect. It didn't really bug me knowing that we were going to break up soon enough and yeah. But the thing is was that I was mad because of everything he told them and he was flirting with my friend in front of me. So they wanted to get back at him and of course I wanted to also. Now his friends were sitting there like, "do it now, ect" My friends and I planned to say something stupid like he would say, "We need to break up" I would be like, "what? we were going out? Crap then I need to tell my boyfriend" Because it got all complicated and it did make sense. So what happened was when he was about to tell me my friend said, "ok, I need to tell you something, she thinks you guys were never going out" He said, "ok.." The thing was that he questioned it but we wanted to make him feel really stupid. I know that's bad but trust me there was more to it. She said, "She has a boyfriend" His face was like..wow so great. It seemed like he didn't take it hard but idk what was in his head. I think he was shocked. His friends were like, "dang I feel sorry for you" We made him look so stupid. I don't know why I'm not upset about this break up and why I'm not sitting here crying like I would expect it. I went for the wrong guy and I know that but now what? How do I forget about him and what I did to him. He deserved it and I don't feel bad...which I think is bad considering who I am and you wouldn't expect it. It got all complicated and stuff about everything and he was confused if we were really going out and I've thought that too because lack of communication thing. What am I supposed to do now? I don't know if I still like him especially after this. Sorry this was long and was kinda confusing. Thanks
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It's natural for you to want to get back at him, and make him look like the ass that he is. I mean, he DID deserve it, and you gave him exactly the medicine he needed because he has a serious case of stupid. Like, flirting with your friend IN FRONT OF YOU is a really low blow. And okay, sometimes in the spur of the moment, we hurt people we care about most beacuse they hurt us and you want them to feel your pain so that you can feel better. I know that you don't feel remorse right now, and I'm not saying that you definetly will, I'm just saying that you'll most likely want to apologize to him sooner or later. Right now you are just shocked that you could and were capable of doing that to him, but think about it, YOU didn't actually say anything to him. It was mostly your friend, so maybe you should talk to him via e-mail or phone or something. The reason you did this to him was because you were hurt which means that you did like him alot, and the only way you can determine if you still like him is to wait a couple days and cool down. If you can't get him off your mind and you feel really bad about what you did to him [even though we both know he deserved it] then talk to him. Try to make it civil between the both of you. You might not think this now, but he's probably as confused as you are. It happened pretty fast. Just because he is a complete jerk, doesn't mean he doesn't have feelings, yuh know? We're only human, and sometimes the heat of the moment takes over us and we over-react. So just slow down, take a breath, and anazlyze your entire relationship with him. The good and the bad. And when you're done, talk to him. It's all you can do, because that's the only way things will get solved.
Hope I helped ! keep me updated ! good luck girl :] xxo
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