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Theyre making me so depressed.
Ive been having these dreams lately and theyre depressing me. All of them are about love and me meeting a guy or having a boyfriend and stuff. I was already depressed to begin with because i want to find love so bad and its like everyone can do it but me. I mean I see it every where TV, movies, my sis and her boyfriend, my mom and step dad, just everywhere. I want to cry everyday but i cant. Im the one that only cries on the inside. I want to stop wanting to cry everytime i see two people who love each other so much, but i dont know how to do it. I want to stop being depressed all the time because its getting so much harder to hide from my family and friends. I cant tell anyone anything because im so embarassed. Please help me.
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how about instead of being depressed when seeing couples together maybe try being happy for them. It sounds like you need to change the way you perceive things. I understand you want to find love (who doesn't), but just know that when the time is right it will come to you. There's nothing wrong with wanting to escape to dreamland either it definitely beats real life by a long shot... but remember that reality is what everyone has to face everyday. Since you didn't mention your age I don't really know how else to approach the question except to just be patient and don't try too hard, and especially don't let the idea of finding love interfere with your higher priorities like family.
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It is OKAY to be single. Trust me, please don't look for love - you'll never find it. Love will find you. We can't all live in fairytail land, which is why we can't always wait for our prince charming. You dream about what you last think about the second before you fall asleep. Assuming you're not old since you still live with your family - I'm guessing you're still pretty young. You have your whole life to live and trust me there are plenty of fish in the sea. In order to take your mind off being 'alone' you need to get out there and keep yourself busy. Take up a hobby - get involved with clubs at school. Hang out with friends as much as you can, or spend time with family. It helps to keep your mind occupied and eventually someone will find you and they will love you very much. Good Luck!
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