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Im shy
Hi ok i want to be a radio personality i am 16 when i meet new people who i have never met before i am not afraid to be myself and do the funny entertaining things i do i am a very entertaining person and i am the party girl everyone wants around but when i am with people who i have known for years like the people at my high school i am unable to be like that i am shy and afraid and they have no idea that i am as funny and entertaining as i am i want to know if thier is a way to get passed that shyness and show the people who have known me since i was in preschool who i really am
thanks
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1. Compliment them.
- If they're wearing a nice pair of shoes, or some cute jeans, tell them. Let them know you like their shoes, and then ask where they got them. After that, ask if they're comfortable or something. Don't be annoying about it, but take interest in the person you're talking to, and hopefully, chances are they'll show interest back.
2. Find something you have in common.
- If they're wearing a band shirt, and it's a band you like, tell them! For example, say they are wearing a Rocket Summer shirt, say to them, "I see you have on a Rocket Summer shirt, do you like his music?" Then, after they answer, tell them your opinion on the band/artist.
3. Talk about your surroundings/where you are.
- Say it's after class and the person next to you is getting up to leave. Walk out next to him/her and comment on the class. Say something like, "That was kind of an interesting lesson." or "Was it just me, or was that lecture kind of boring?" or, if you're sitting outside on a bench, and somebody is sitting next to you, make a comment about the weather or where you are.
4. Make a joke!
- There's no better way to make friends with somebody than to make them smile/laugh. BUT don't make a joke about another person, it will make you look bad AND potentially hurt another person's feelings.
-Laura (16-f)
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