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my crazy dad
okay, so my dad is 46, my mom and him got divorced when i was 7 and my brother was 12, well now im 16 and my brother is 21. My dad is an alcholic and a drug addict and he lives in a motel.. he wont save his money to get an apartment or anything my dad i guess you can say had a rough past but, alot of people who have rough past's can move on and do something with there lifes i dont understand why my dad wont.. i never see him maybe like once every 5 months or so if that and if i do see him its a quick hi, bye type of thing we dont talk much or anything he talks to my brother all the time tough, since he can drink they go to the bars a lot my brother was telling me how the other day he was in the bar saying how his dad messed up his life and still is... but my grandfather is dead and he really didnt do anything to my dad.. like other people in my family did but not my grandpa.. he thinks his real dad is Jerry Garcia from the Grateful Dead.. my dad use to and probably still does Acid so i know that could have an effect on him but he was also telling my brother that night that he has lung cancer.. but he never went to the doter he said he "just knows" should we beilive him?? i dont know i was thinking about it all day and i dont get why he would say that if he wasnt at a docters.. both his parents are dead.. they died from cancer so we dont know if hes just saying that or not .. my dad has a lot of issues but i mean hes still my dad.. what should i do? im like freaking out???
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wow, that's rough. maybe, if he thinks his dad (your grandpa) ruined his life, he should try and be a better father than his own. take it seriously just in case. i'm not sure what you can do if he's like that. but tell your brother to let him know what he's doing to you guys.
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