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me vs. them
14/f
usa
thank you for reading this. i have a problem with my friends. latley things have nto been nearly of how great they used to be. there are these two that i thought i was really closed to. well i found out that they pretended to be someone asking me out on myspace but turns out it was really them. but i found this out about a month after it happened and they pretended to be him on the phone. i completly feel humilitated becuase i thought they trusted me. they are extremly sorry for that they did and i know i should forgive them but i have 0 trust for them right now. what should i do? should u be their friends or shold i try to move on. oh . . . one more thing. we are different people. they talk about sexual things a lot and im a christian with a purity ring. we have fun together but sometimes i think things go overboard. what should i do?
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Hello,first off you should do what makes you feel comfortable,your feelings are at stake here.A true friend is honest,caring,someone you share similar qualities with,someone who cares for you and someone that you feel comforatble with overall. From what you are saying i do not think these are true friends,their qualties are almost opposite from yours and this could cause you to fall into temptaion with you being christian and not wanting to talk about sex because of your values.If they were truly your friends they would talk about sex alittle less or not at all when they around you,but they are pretty young so they probabaly do not take what you care about most and your values into consideration. If a REAL friend knew you liked someone and had a general interest in the they would never ever pretend to be him asking you out that is very immature and I am pretty sure it hurt your feelings.When you have a friend
they shoule be their to help you when your feelings are hurt not be the one hurting your feelings. Also everyone cannot be labled as your friend,just because you have a good time with them does not make them your friend,I true firend is hard to find and you will know a real friend when you have one because you will feel that special bond. You should definitley move on from them and or just label them as associates,friends do not bring your life down in any way,only up!!I hope this helped,If you have any further questions regarding this topic or any other topic for that matter do not hesitate to send me a private message I will honered to be of aid to you..The best of luck to you!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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If theres another group of friends you are close to I would lean on getting closer to them than your other friends you mentioned. I learned that a friend screws you over once, its probably going to happen again. you guys are completely different, and usually people change and begin to be more like their friends, so that could happen also.
Hope I helped a little
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