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okay im 15/f and my boyfriends 14/m.
weve been dateing for awhile now. and we fight all the time. about anything we go to diffrent schools to. so it doesnt help.he has made me cry in public and pretty much every day. but the days i see him wich is only twice a week or so. but he has told me that he thinks its weird when were not together and my frineds really hate him like they truely do. but im in love with him i know im only 15 and i could say it about every guy i date but ive never felt this strongly for someone. he doestn like the fact that i have done alot with other guys we fight about that all the time. and he yells and says he doesnt want to talk to me then he says he loves me and is sorry. im greatly confused on what im supposed to do should i trust my friends when they say hes no good for me or should i go with what my heart says to do? both seem right to me but they both cant be right?
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Hello,Well if you are going to have a boyfriend it should be somoeone that truly cares for you and excepts you for you no matter what happened in your past.If he truly cared for you and loved you the way he says he does he would not make you cry on a daily basis, I mean relationships have there issues but making you cry that mcuh is unacceptable, he should be the one comforting you when you cry not being the one making you cry. A guy that you are with should always want to communicate with you when you guys are having issues because talking about it is the only way to solve it,I mean yes some people need time to think about the situation but saying he doesnt want to talk to you is very selfish and inconsiderate. I beleive he is rather immature and you should talk to him about him making you feel this way and see what his response,if he his willing to change and you see a big difference then maybe you should give him a chance but honestly i do not hink he will change,people that hurt others usually keep this pattern and continue after time,he may stop for awhile then go back to doing the same thing and that is not what you want or deserve,you deserve the best,never settle for less than what you deserve. I know you may love him but you wont be with him forever,like Im not sure you will marry him but then again you dont know the future, you should be enjoying your youth and all your relationships not being miserable and crying most of the time.You will find a guy that respects you in every way, you will have lots of experience with guys, your time is just beginnging,you will really fall in love and have the joys of a real relationship. Friends can really influence your choices but you neeed to do what is the best for you at this time,remember your heart is not always right!I hope this helped,If you have any further questions regarding this topic or any other topic for that matter do not hesitate to send me a private message I will honered to be of aid to you..The best of luck to you!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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I say you go with your heart. It could be puppy love or it could be real you never know. But There must be some other reason why your friends hate him so much, and if there is then maybe you should you consider that but only if there's a real good reason. Friends are great support but only you two know how deep your feelings are. And for the fight part, i had that same problem with my boyfriend. Its not that he dont love or care about you its just that a guy wants to feel like your his and only his so when he thinks bout you being more than just friends with any guy it kinda hurts! No you cant take it back but all you can do is sit down and talk to him bout it and if you think your serious enough about him; make sure it doesnt happen again. Sooner or later he will see that the past is only the past.
-JABOiNKER.
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