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me and my dad used to be really close but then came my stepmother and don't get me wrong I love her but I feel my dad only listens to her now and he always talks about her what should I do and dont say confront him because I've tried that and we all started fighting and it came back to her asking if she's ok
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I've been in the same situation, my parents got a divorce my dad met this chick on the internet (match.com) and like a week after he met her in person she moved in, we barely knew her and my dad was like "in love" with her.. she was all he cared about, all he talked about, she would steal mine and my sisters stuff which really made us mad, she tried her best to get my dad to hate me and my sister, we didn't get along with her at all and one day we just got so fed up with all her crap so we told her how we felt and she got my dad to kick us out.. she wanted my dad all to herself she didn't understand that he has the responsibility of two kids, and that it's hard for kids to except there parents relationships but anyways he picked her over his own kids..
most stepmoms want the dads all to themselves
expecially if they don't have kids, that's why i'd rather prefer my dad dating someone with kids.
that way they understand the whole divorce thing and they don't try to ruin mine and my dads relationship.
it's normal to feel like that.
my dad was the same exact way he would take up for his girlfriend all the time, even if she was wrong.. Just because he was scared to be alone.
it's hard but it's just something you're gonna have to get used to, the more you try talking to him the more it will make him mad and the more yall were fight. Trust me i've been in the same exact situation you're in and trust me it's not pretty.
Now I just try to except my parents relationships, If my parents are happy then i'm happy. Luckily my dad dumped that girl and now he's dating this new girl that has kids, she's not that bad but sometimes I still wish that my mom and my dad could still be together.
I hope my advice helps, and I hope everything gets better between you and your dad :)
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