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on top for sex
I am a female and I am not a virgin but haven't had sex many times. The few times I have had sex I have been on the bottom. My boyfriend wants me to go on top but I am nervous cause I havent before and I am nervous to be in control. I know I should try it tho, so does anyone have any tips for me for being on top?
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I am a guy,
I don't think you are nervous for going on top, i would rather think you have a fair of letting your boyfriend find out who you really are, or you think he may think differently of you if you enjoyed it in a more freaky way.
Sex was meant to have fun, when having it, so let yourself go, even if you become someone else.
I know i love to see when my wife turn dirty and freaky, so don't let another woman do it for you.ssshh just a guy thing...
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I am on top most of the time. I like being on top and I like being in control. But you don't have to be in control just because you are on top. Your boyfriend can do the same thing as when he is on top, even when you are. To me it's much easier to get orgasms when I'm on top also.
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Well you don't ALWAYS have to be in charge if you're on top! He can still do the work if you want him to. He can thrust upwards into you and you can either sit up straight or lean towards him. Or you can just bounce up and down on him. Which would make you in control. Its whatever you're comfortable with. You can also grind against him once he's all the way in. It's really good clit stimulation. Just try a few different things and go with what feels best :)
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