Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice

Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics


Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)


Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Contact Us

Do you last longer when you have sex vs jacking off?

Question Posted Monday January 19 2009, 3:10 am

Ok, so my gf and I have been at it for awhile and both agree its time to have sex. But im worried Ill cum early so I wont be hard and wont be able to so it. We fool around and stuff and dry hump or whatever and ill cum within like 5-10 mins. Does it change if you actually do it? Are there ways to last longer? thanks.

[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Trouble Reaching Orgasm?

jediforhire answered Sunday January 25 2009, 7:41 pm:
Everyone else is spot on, but I have a couple things to add.
When you do masturbate, and you feel yourself getting close to climaxing, back off until it stops, and then start again. Go for as long as you can without actually orgasming. Over time this can help your body get acclimated to lasting longer.
And make sure to be as stress and worry free as possible, its key to good sex.

[ jediforhire's advice column | Ask jediforhire A Question

karenR answered Tuesday January 20 2009, 1:45 pm:
OK I don't usually answer these but I
feel you need advice from someone older
here. :)

If you want to last longer, I suggest
you masturbate before the big date. It
will help you a lot. The excitement of
actually having sex will probably give
you 5-10 minutes if not even less time
when it comes to actually doing it.
Having actual sex will not help you
last longer.

Another suggestion is if you need more
time during sex, immediately start
thinking of something non sexual until
you calm down some. Have something in
mind beforehand.

[ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question

Melody answered Monday January 19 2009, 10:21 pm:
You probably won't last for a very long time if you only last 5-10 minutes when you are just rubbing up against each other.

The main thing that will help you last longer is time. After having sex for a while, you will start lasting longer.

One thing that might help is masturbating before sex. If you already ejaculate beforehand, then it will take longer when you have sex.

[ Melody's advice column | Ask Melody A Question

photofeature answered Monday January 19 2009, 9:03 pm:
Actually having sex can sometimes make you come quicker, just from the excitement of it all. So I would definently not expect to last longer. However, wearing a condom (which you should be doing anyway!) can sometimes slow it down, and either Trojan or Durex (Can't remember..) make one to extend the amount of time you can go. Also, masturbating a few hours before sex can help.

[ photofeature's advice column | Ask photofeature A Question

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: eye contacts..
Next Question >>> Saw I

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

How long do hickeys norma
Boyfriend being mean
I don't know if my crush is lying about him liking me
im in a bad situration - abuse - suicide thoughts -please read and give adv
College and friendship
massage = cheating?
Adderall fears
Boyfriend ignoring me but I act like I dont notice
I think I'm pregnant and I don't know what to do
Scared to Wear My Glasses
getting isolated from relatives because of wealth
Is child development enjoyable?
My ex boyfriend text me
I raped someone
Me and my boyfriend have no privacy !
Is there a demon in my room?
I'm a monster and I want to end it
Hurting my Mother's Feelings
Mononessa an hour late

All content on this page posted by members of is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker