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my mom is getting on my nerves
Iam a 19 year old female and my mom and I fight all the time and iam sick of it and I know that not all the stuff we fight about is all her fault it's partly my fault to but today she just pissed me off so bad it's not even funny she just really hurt my feelings and this is not the first time she's made comments to me about this subject either. Iam going tell tell you what happened. we was talkin about the new to be president of the united states and i said I wish people wouldn't have elected a muslim for a president and my mom had to go a bring about how i was molested by my daddy into it this is was the comment just becouse his daddy was a muslim dosn't mean aboma was remember your daddy was a child molester that dosn't make you one does it? It just pissed me off and hurt my feelings really bad. I can't help it he molested me and she made it seem like it was my fault for what he did?
what should I do? I want to talk to he about it but i don't know how to go about it the right way without hurting hur feelings and making matters worse than it already is.
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I think you need counceling for the molestation. Your mother does too. Your 19, move out if you cant get along.
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Have you had any counseling for this? I would advise getting some so you can move past this. Your mother bringing this up was way out of line. It sounds like she may have some issues getting past it also. She may be still mad at herself for letting it happen, and is projecting it onto you. And with the religion thing. This country is a melting pot of all races and religions, it is just as appropriate for a muslim to be president as a catholic. Religion is just a man-made business, it is not God-made, there is never full truth in any religion. It is all in the eye of the beholder, and some people just need it for self- comfort (or in many cases, a habit they grew up with.)
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